Balance and moving forward

One thing I am grateful to my mother is the fact that we had different activities and community events to help us keep a balance. If there were a lot problems in one area the other areas tend to hold me up and keep me motivated to deal with my responsibility in the problem areas. OCD is a condition that can be treated but I do not believe it ever goes away. I have life experience with not being able to deal with someone toughing or moving any of my items once I have a place for them. Now, I get overwhelmed when there is a box from moving a year ago to separate from kid's stuff and adult stuff (we moved so abruptly there was no organizing the packing, well there was no packing at all). This really sent me over the edge and now its easier to sit in a mess and just clean around it than to clean up the mess. One good thing, I am willing to throw away, sell, and donate things so with all this information about my situation am I a true hoarder? My space in nothing like the hoarders on youtube and tv. I have a pile of stuff to get up and a small place. Its border line and confusing. The area I live in do not have the mental health help to help me decide. I've been blessed with friends that not only remind me of the truth but jump in and help. Its gotten me started. Thanks M and K for your help through this hard time. I don't like waiting to the last minute but then again every time I get started any little trigger can make me stop working.